A friend once told me: “I’m never my real self in English.” That line stayed with me. It made me wonder: does language limit innovation and education? Does it mute creativity and authenticity?
In Rwanda, we study in English, pitch in English, and even dream of
opportunities in English. But here is the struggle: sometimes the vocabulary
feels too small for the big ideas we want to share. Sometimes the rhythm feels
off. And sometimes, even when we know exactly what we mean, it doesn’t sound
like our real self.
I have felt this too. In my mother tongue, I am witty, fast, and
expressive. In English, I am careful, slower, and sometimes incomplete. That
gap changes how people see us, and how we see ourselves.
Language isn’t just grammar; it is identity.
A student may understand a concept deeply, but presenting in English
makes them sound hesitant. An entrepreneur may have a groundbreaking idea, but
pitching in a second language makes them look less convincing. A team member
may have the perfect solution, but they stay quiet, worried about grammar.
It is not that the ideas do not exist. They are just trapped behind
words. And when words fail, innovation slows, education feels unfair, and
identity feels muted.
Can someone ever speak a foreign language so well that they sound and
feel like a native? Some say yes: with immersion, practice, and years of
effort, you can blend in seamlessly. Others say no because language isn’t just
words; it is culture, humor, and subtle codes that outsiders rarely fully
absorb.
Maybe the truth is somewhere in between. You can become fluent, even
brilliant, in another language. You can debate, pitch, and write with
confidence. But your real self, the one with jokes, emotions, and cultural
nuance, often shines brightest in your mother tongue.
And maybe this essay itself proves the point. Perhaps I haven’t even
written the whole idea the way I wanted to, because English isn’t my mother
tongue.
Language barriers don’t erase creativity, but they can muffle it. That
is why respecting multilingualism matters. If education, innovation, and
collaboration happen only in one dominant language, countless voices risk being
unheard.
The challenge isn’t just mastering English, or any global language. It
is building systems that allow people to contribute in their own languages,
while also bridging cultures. That way, no one has to choose between being
understood and being authentic.
